Milestone: 15 months

We're just a week away from 16 months so I wanted to jot down notes from now.

Now, that N has become a proficient walker, he's moved on to babbling non stop.  Top words : Mama, Uh-oh, Dada, hot-hot-hot, banana-na, off, up, clock (for clock and watches), woof (for not just dog, but any animal), bubble, ball, box and possibly the words "I don't know."  He understands a lot more, such as "No!," which he hears a lot and simple directions such as "pick up that toy" or "turn on the tv."

He's learning to get us to do what he wants by grabbing our finger and dragging us over to the kitchen windows or counter (for example) and saying "up" to get up and explore.   He'll run to me crying, grab my hand, and make me go where he wants.  It's a great life when everyone does what you want!

He loves to laugh and make us laugh.  He walks and jumps around on the bed.  Then, he likes to throw his head back and fall backwards so that one of us catches him.  This is a fun "game" to him.

His favorite TV shows:  Yo Gabba Gabba and Blue's Clues.  That's all we allow although we'll throw in Sesame Street or Thomas the Train to mix it up once in a while.  He shouldn't watch any TV at all; however, you do whatever it takes to get him to eat.

He's following a mostly vegetarian diet.  He hasn't taken to the texture of meat, which is fine with me because he is eating incredibly healthy by avoiding meat.  He eats tofu, quinoa, barley, wild rice, brown rice, couscous and adds in mung beans, all green vegetables and assorted other vegetables, fruits (bananas, mangos, watermelon, oranges, apples) to complete a healthy meal.  We were at a birthday party last week and one mother came up to me amazed that I was feeding him quinoa and avocado while the older kids ate their pizza.   She was further incredulous that I don't season it with artificial flavors or spices to make it more enticing.

Maachli for the Indian Mother’s Soul

Check out CityMasala.com for the May 2010 magazine issue with my Maachli recipe.

Fish, or maachali in Hindi, has long been considered “brain food.” What desi doesn’t want to be smart?? Fish is low in fat, high in protein, and full of omega 3 fatty acids that help reduce the risk of heart disease and lower cholesterol. Fish is popular in many Indian cuisines, especially in Goa, Assam, Kerala and Bengal. My family mostly ate chicken when I was growing up, but in the last couple of years I have witnessed the health benefits of what even some vegetarians call the “fruit of the sea.” During our pre-wedding diet, my husband and I abstained from meat and ate only fish and veggies. Not only did we trim down in time for the wedding, but we also had increased energy, both physical and mental. When I was pregnant, I once again embraced the benefits of fish and omega 3 for proper development of my baby’s brain and nerves. Fish has become a mainstay in my family’s diet.

This recipe version is for the mild tasting haddock, but good substitutes are cod, tilapia, flounder, or catfish. These are all low-mercury fish. Gujaratis often top fried fish with a tomato sauce, so I’ve included the preparation for a simple sauce. Serve the dish hot over basmati or brown rice and eat with fresh steamed vegetables of your choosing for a filling meal.

Ingredients

For Fried Fish:

• 1 1/2 lb haddock fish fillets
• 1 tsp garlic paste
• 1 tsp ginger paste
• 1/2 tsp ground turmeric
• 1 tsp red chili powder
• 1 tsp ground coriander
  
• 1/2 tsp ground cumin
• 1 tsp lemon juice
• 1/2 tsp salt
• vegetable oil for frying

For Tomato Sauce:

• vegetable oil for frying
• 1 tsp mustard seeds
• 1 chopped onion
• 1 cup tomato puree (or use a 14 oz can)
• 1/2 tsp ginger paste
  
• 1/2 tsp garam masala
• 1/2 tsp salt
• 1/2 tsp pepper
• chopped fresh coriander for garnish

Preparation

1. Wash the fish fillets in cold water and dry on paper towel.
2. Combine the garlic, ginger, ground turmeric, chilli powder, ground coriander, ground cumin, lemon juice, and salt in a medium bowl.
3. Brush the spice mix onto both sides of each fillet and marinate in the refrigerator for 2 hours to allow the flavors to penetrate.
   
4. Heat 2 tbsp of oil in a medium frying pan.
5. Fry the fish fillets, about 5 minutes on each side, and set aside.
6. Heat some more oil in a pan.
7. When hot, add mustard seeds.
8. When seeds crackle, add onions and saute for 1-2 minutes.
9. Pour in the tomato puree and cook for three minutes.
10. Add ginger, garam masala, salt and pepper according to taste.  Turn off heat.
11. Pour the sauce over the fish.  Garnish with chopped coriander.

Published! in Khabar Magazine

I am happy to report that my latest published article is available in the May 2010 issue of Khabar Magazine (circulation 27,000 + online), a monthly magazine for the Indian community in Georgia and surrounding areas.
 Click here for the online article.

I wrote this article as a Mother's Day gift for my mom.  I re-purposed  an old business school essay and re-wrote it before submitting.  The magazine edited it, also.  My only gripe is that one of the magazine edits changed the meaning of an event from my mom's story.  Otherwise, I was very happy that the edits sharpened my essay.  The magazine version includes a photo of my mom and me taken in 2003 at my cousin's wedding in England.  I can't wait to get my print copy so I can give it to my mom.